Consider it Pure Joy!

This morning as I read my various devotions, I came across this verse: 

"Consider it pure joy my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance."  James 1:2-3

As I am typing this verse, I am thinking of so many friends that are going through such trials in their life.  One friend, is having medical issues; another friend, issues with her daughter; and then another friend is having troubles at work.  She is not having any joy in her job.  She can't afford to quit, but she is miserable.  What do you tell someone who is going through such pain, either physically, mentally, emotional or even spiritually? 

As Christians, we have been told many times, God will help you through your circumstances; hang in there; you will come out stronger; this is building character in your life, etc.  I know what my faith is all about.  I know that God is there.  But there are times, you just can not bear to hear those words "it is going to be all right".

When a friend is going through some heavy burdens, I just let them know that I love them and God does too.  Sometimes a person just needs a shoulder to cry on.

"God allows trials to come into our lives in order to prove the authenticity of our faith.  We are like a tube of toothpaste, when squeezed whatever is on the inside comes out.  Trials have a way of revealing character.  When our faith is tested, we have the opportunity to demonstrate the character of Christ being developed in us.  Our testimony is enriched as our faith increases.  Learning how to trust God when trials ensue is part of our spiritual formation.  God does not waste the trauma that comes into our lives.  When difficult circumstances are in view, our faith is fortified."  by Dr Stephen Trammell.

The next time that you have a friend or family member going through difficult times, just be available by phone or in person.  Listen to them and sometimes just be silent.  You don't have to say anything.  You could ask, if they would mind if you prayed a prayer and ask God for the wisdom that they need during this time. Ask them if it is all right if you let some other devoted prayer partners know about their situation.   God tells us that when two or more come together, our prayers will be heard.  A hug goes a long way.  If you live close by, try to meet them the next week for coffee/tea.  A great way of letting them know that someone cares.  If you don't live close by, drop them a note or send them a text of encouragement.

We all go through troubling times or feel that we have a black cloud hanging over our us.  Satan is at work everyday.  As Christians, we need to put on our armor and be available to our family and friends.